Well first of all if I had kids, I would make sure to give them the liberty of doing what they want, I don't have to force my kids! If they want to come along they would if they don't leave them be. Plus I wouldn't always make a habit of having family time every single day/holiday/week. Family time would be more special if it was hanging out with everyone in a way that wasn't forcing your kids to do something and suffocate them as you go along. Yes doesn't make sense for some people but my parents think that family time is not enough because my mom is an paranoid anxious ambivalent sort of parent and my dad is pretty much the same but not as spastic as my mom.
Second I don't need my husband(future term speaking) to go back me up all the time. if I want my kids to feel guilty or get my message across I would handle it in a way that will show that I can stand on my ground. Like seriously my parents are just obvious, once my mom gets pissed off after having a slash at me my dad comes in and continue the work for my mom. I don't know if dad doesn't notice but mom doesn't do the same thing for you dad. Must suck for you dad.
Last don't fucking give me the 'oh if you don't want to, you don't have to but we are just saying that when you are spending time with your boyfriend it doesn't matter even if you hanged out till midnight.' Don't fucking use my boyfriend guilt trip all the time because it is getting fucking old and one more time seriously I have had it! I just want to move out of this fucking house! Like I love my family but your old ways are just demoralizing. Like you think you have some fucking values but the way you handle things are like not the most effective way to deal with things. Probably the fact that you guys are a big show off doesn't help you in your parenting ways but the fact that you keep getting worst and always have to put it on me fucking sucks.
It hasn't been half a day yet and already I don't want to be around them. It is not like all the time I hang out with my boyfriend. I actually go to university so fuck you dad for using the term the 'whole day with boyfriend' because my significant other actually finished work at around 6.30-7pm on Fridays and that is when we do our date night. Half of the time we are actually studying in university not spending time with each other. Probably my parent has this image in their head that I don't fucking study in university because I have a fucking boyfriend and stay in uni as late as I can.
I stay in uni as late as I can because no one can study in this house. I think if I stayed in this house to study (in 2010, where things are crazy at home) I would have failed all my exams, like my mom failing her CIA exam which was yesterday.
I felt sorry for you last night mom but I would say serve you right for making such a big fuss how you couldn't study at home properly. Now you understand why I don't study here. Plus there has been so many opportunities for you to study but when we remind you, you always whined on 'I don't get to rest!' 'I have been doing the house cleaning, cooking, etc...' or the famous one 'Don't give me this stress now I have been so tired, don't you want me to rest?!'
Thats my mom with her dramatic attitude, to her she thinks she is having a nervous breakdown because of the financial situation, my dad being annoying (he talks non stop), my sisters problems, her mother problem, me and her sister (which is getting kinda old). I seriously think that she does it to herself. I think if she is not so much of a show off and having to go to all these events, performances, occasion and functions she wouldn't be in the state she is in now.
As for my dad, he is just this person who talks non stop when trying to get his message across. Basically his message only has a sentence but because it is him talking he will take the long way of explaining things and will repeat it till you just want to knock him out so he shuts up. Like I don't think dad's way of telling us things is not registering in my head. It is more of 'I don't want to hear your crap because I have heard it before' sort of thing. So there you go I don't think that was effective. When he talks in my head I am already thinking 'yup I have most likely hear and had the same conversation with him, best not to say anything so it will be shorter than last time.' See how bad his style is? Before he even tell us his message we are already shutting down our system so it just doesn't register anymore. He just over do it you know? Most likely we have heard it but if there is a new matter most likely in our head we are thinking 'we have heard this already! Shut down now!'
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