Firstly in guys I HATE skinny jeans. The guys in my generation LOVES wearing skinny jeans. I never understood why I thought they would hate it because it would have been really tight. My perceptions of guys who wear skinny jeans is that their balls are tiny as an ant or they are giving themselves punishment because they feel ashamed of themselves. So if you are really cute but I see you wear skinny jeans BAM! You don't interest me anymore.
Shoulder bags, it is not like I don't like it but for me wearing a shoulder bag makes you appear less masculine. I much prefer seeing guys walking around university or anywhere carrying a backpack on their back. When I see Asian boys wear shoulder bag with girlfriends I keep thinking those two must get along so well because they are so similar because they are both feminine. I mean androgyny is good but there are just certain things that you need to appear masculine about like for example your appearance. People these days judge people basing their appearance. So if you are a guy you have to toughen up your look.
Cardigans, once again I don't like seeing guys wearing tight things even if you have nice abs or whatever I just don't want to see guys wearing cardigans. My perceptions of cardigans was originally for girls but if guys starts wearing it I instantly assume that the guy is still hiding in his closet.
Piercings, maybe an earring on your left is sort of nice, it sort of gives a bad boy look. However choose the right earing! Do not choose hoop earring! Gosh I remember the time when my significant other wore a gold tiny hooped earring I nearly drowned myself. So I asked him that when he comes to see me take the earing of because I don't like it and my parents aren't impress either. A single diamond stud is decent. I prefer guys wearing a diamond stud shaped as a square, I think it gives a very strong bad boy look. Piercings on other body parts I don't mind looking at but I don't want my man to have more than one. Just one piercing in the left ear is good. Moreover don't go hardcore with the piercings like getting your tongue pierced, eyebrow pierce etc.
Dyed hair, hmmm This is hard. Since I prefer a dark haired guys I don't know really what to say Take for example an Asian guy who dyed his hair light brown, even if you are cute but because you dyed it lighter your appearance probably didn't strike me as much. Personally if you have black or dark brown hair stick to it. I think girls like seeing dark mysterious bad boy effect than seeing a preppy blonde high school jock. I mean in high school it wasn't so bad but in this generation I prefer the dark colour hair look. Even for Caucasians I always check out the guy with a dark hair not necessarily the blonde haired friend. Even though for me as a girl I prefer girls having lighter colour, because I think it suits us and adds a little spice in our appearance.
Which look do you prefer ?
T-shirts I like seeing guys in normal T-shirt. Shirts that are neon colour with neon design does not make me look twice. However if you are wearing a descent shirt, then I actually acknowledge your presence, even if I am just staring at you. So keep it simple. I like guys who appear simple and casual because it makes me realize that this guy is not a women who cares so much about their appearance. Keep it simple even a simple designed shirt with a funny comment is alright. Just not too many colours.
Shoes, not so fussy about it. It is rare that I would look down to look at your toes because I hate toes in general. I think they are disgusting and plain ugly. If there is one thing in my body that I can chop off it would be my toes because I think they are ugly. So yes shoes don't bother me unless I am wearing it because I like wearing nice shoes. There is a saying that nice and good shoes takes you to places you have never been in before. Although I get impressed when I see a guy wearing a white Lacoste rubber shoes because I know its expensive and not many people either can pull it off or afford it.
Makeup - eyeliner, lipgloss and founation HELL NO FOR GUYS! Just admit the fact that you are gay if you bother wear an eyeliner for no valid reason. Plus if you admit that you are gay you will instantly gain me as a friend because I love making friends with gay people because they are like the coolest and fun people to hang around with. They are like girls but with so much fun 'go get' attitude. So there no need to hide sexuality, don't even say to me 'I am only wearing for this seasons fashion' because that is a stupid reason. Plus I guarantee you that you will attract many females (who will only see you as a friend)!
Lastly Jewelry, as usual keep it simple: one stud earring, watch, necklace, bracelet (maybe) and ring (so-so). are the only ones I approved in a guy. I don't want the guy to be wearing jewelry to show off that he has some money. I am not fuzzy about whether I prefer guys wearing silver or gold but to me gold is a stronger effect. Normally golds value is much more than silver so I always think that gold is superior but other than that I really don't care. Me and my significant other prefer gold because we are both olive skinned people so normally gold looks better on us.
Androgyny-a blend in feminine and masculine role attributes
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