I was looking at a particular blog and then suddenly it lead me to a link about someone exposing their own whole face surgery experience to the public (that is probably why I forgot who's blog actually showed it to me). link here
I know that when I was young I thought that because of my flat wide nose I would never have a guy who will like me, at that time my nose was everything that made me insecure. I even believe that I will get a boyfriend at age 29 because of my age. Just the nose though. Everything else was fine especially my eyes, it was what I love most about in my face. Mom would always say that I don't have to worry about my nose because once I turn 21 I can have it fixed by the best surgeon in the country. Well since I migrated in a Caucasian country where there was not a single flat nose I was very insecure. I thought that my nose covered my entire face, literally I still believe it still is covering my whole face!
After seeing the link above I started cringing at the whole surgery idea, don't get me wrong inside of me I still wish that I can do something about my nose. I sometimes wish there would be like a genie that would appear right in front of my eyes and fix all my problems, pain free. I know very immature but life goes on.
A lot of people judge plastic surgery, most people think its a disgusting attitude of wanting to become more beautiful by changing your looks completely (though I somehow agree) but others mostly girls would say that surgery was the best decision they ever made because they started feeling confident about themselves.
For me I say so-so, I would say it is not a bad thing if you are using it because you feel that it would make you more confident about yourself, if however you use it for other reason such as having whole face done for an ex-boyfriend (click here ) then I disagree. I don't completely agree but I don't completely disagree on surgeries, I mean it seems that several people are doing it these days. That is probably why people don't understand anymore why their mothers are so damn beautiful and they themselves (the kids) are like adopted kids from an orangutan. No one these days can you actually call real beauty anymore, especially those people on TV that are labelled 'beautiful' are NOT real anymore. Back in the olden days where surgery was not entirely popular were the days where you can distinguish an ugly person from a natural beauty. Even Elizabeth Taylor one of the most beautiful women needed surgery too right?
Why is that?
Well for one thing, people will never be CONTENT.
I know this as well, because as a human being I have days where I am absolutely feeling beautiful and my ego is unbreakable and then one day I will be completely pessimistic and overtly harsh towards myself.
I know there is a saying 'love yourself for who you really are and love what you really look like if you value your parents' that I support but sometimes enhancing yourself using surgery is not so bad, just think of it as a way to pamper yourself by suffering now and enjoying later. Like exams you study and stress first and then the outcome would be holidays and looking forward for a relaxing days ahead.
So what am I really saying?
Well basically I just want people to know that judging plastic surgery should be stopped at all cost. If you want to judge plastic surgery please based it on whose face looks better after surgery and which doctor failed at fixing someone's face. I know people will get judgmental and critical but sometimes its better to leave those people alone since it is their decision.
I know in my heart that sometimes I feel like I want a nose job but sometimes I feel like I don't want to because I am scared of the painful experience I will encounter. Plus I don't know the possibilities of doctor not being able to do a proper job.
I know a girl who had tucked in her Dumbo like ears behind (at age 15) because she was being teased about it and even her jerky ex boyfriend teased her about it after breakup. But after ears tuck she was completely more confident about herself and actually started dating a couple of boys who was not as jerky as her first ex.
I know a girl who had tucked in her Dumbo like ears behind (at age 15) because she was being teased about it and even her jerky ex boyfriend teased her about it after breakup. But after ears tuck she was completely more confident about herself and actually started dating a couple of boys who was not as jerky as her first ex.
However I am against it if surgery will be undergone in order to win a certain boy or because someone wants her to do it, if you are undergoing surgery please let it be because you want to feel more confident. Also I dislike it if you are using surgery in order to look like a certain celebrity, how about trying to look like your self but 50% enhance? yes? or just want a new look maybe?
I know celebrities like Megan Fox, Jessica Alba, Brad Pitt yadda yadda yadda are good looking people but the fact that makes them good looking is that no body else looks like them. So if you want to look like them then you are not unique you are just like a fake Doppelgänger .
So I am not completely against it because I too wish to undergo nose job because it is too damn flat and wide and humongous. My sister quote 'you have been wanting to fix your nose for God knows how long.' Other than that I think I would be fine, just one job will be fine for me. As long as people can still recognize me after the job is okay for me. I don't have anything against it if people I know have face done, I would probably compliment it. Although I don't know what to say maybe like
'wow you look so much better from before' or 'Finally you look more decent' or maybe 'you look awesome did you lose weight?' (totally diverting from facial change to weight to feel better?)


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